Think of self-awareness are being aware of the ways people perceive you in conversation. Questions to ask yourself in social settings:

  1. Am I always doing all the talking or do I equally let others talk?
  2. Do I generally make every conversation about me or do I keep subjects directed towards those around me?
  3. Do I ask other people questions about their to gain information or do I not care about their life?
  4. Do I affirm other’s point of view or just want everyone to know what I know and “oh and ah” every time I make a point?

James 1:19, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak.”